Passage from Merrill's 1967 Journal, from Langdon Hammer, James Merrill: Life and Art (p. 422. (See Manuscript 7 for a similar passage.)
“Matinées” wittily describes the growth of this singularity. In summer 1967, he drafted this piece of it:
The soul, no doubt, is feminine,
Does not forge swords or use them— or at worst
Drives a dagger into its own breast.
The soul enters smiling through the din
Of a cheap dining room, a Marschallin
All noble proud forebearance, dressed
As one who means to love + suffer must [sic]:
Her ostrich fan, her trailing ice-blue satin.
The soul Merrill pictures is more passive than pacifist, inclined to self-destructiveness rather than aggression. He calls it “feminine” because it is costumed as the aristocratic heroine in Strauss or Proust who exerts power through chilly, “ice-blue” elegance. This is not a conventional basis for human sympathy. “Matinées” argues, however, that opera’s arch poses and exaggerated gestures reveal something basic about the common human condition.
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Drafts of " Matinées " do not appear in the 1967 Notebook (JNL 58, 1964: February 15 - 1967) in Special Collections, Washington University Libraries. Hammer appears to be quoting from the 1967 Notebook at Yale University Libraries:
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